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billssweetie
08/14/2006, 01:34 PM
I don't know that this is the right steps to take on behalf of this little boy, but someone I work with brought it to my attention and I told her I'd do what I could to find a home for this little boy. Her description of him is below. I unfortunately have no idea what the legal status is of this child or whether or not his parents have or will actually relinquish rights -- but my coworker seems to think his mom would do anything to get rid of him. If you or anyone you know might want to investigate further into this and save this little boy, let me know and we can talk futher offline.

Here is the message from my coworker:
Here is what I know about Jamie. He is 7 years old, Caucasian with blond hair. He has very few teeth due to a bad diet. He is social, verbal and in my presence, kind and considerate to younger children and gets along well with others his age. The time I met him, he was well behaved, courteous and wanting to please. His education is delayed due to missing a whole year of schooling. His father is deceased due to drug overdose and his mother is an addict also. Mother has three younger girls who she still cares for in her own fashion. She either likes younger children or girls because she does not want Jamie. This past year he lived with a step-aunt but she returned him to his mother due to problems within the aunt's own life. His grandmother will not take him either. As far as I have been told, these rejections are not due to him personally. I am not sure where "home" is for Jamie and his mother but can find out easily.

My son's family lives next door to the home where Jamie was for the past year. He and my grandson formed a good relationship and played well together. My daughter-in-law is a teacher and had lots of contact with Jamie. She feels that he is a pretty normal 7 year old boy; certainly not perfect, but just a little boy. My family is broken hearted at the turn of events in Jamie's life and wants to help him find a stable home. I am sure he will need some counseling due to his treatment, dental work and probably physical check ups although I know of no physical needs at this time.

Thanks for any help you can give me on this little guy.

April U
08/14/2006, 07:12 PM
Billsweetie, I truley hope Jamie finds a home. Please keep me informed. My Dh and I would be interested in finding out more information and the leagalities that would be involved. We would be interested as long as he would not be of any threat to TJ. I don't know if that would require him to be evaluated or not. My Dh has wanted to adopt an older child. Also, I am not sure if it would be too hard since we are out of state. He sounds like an adorable little boy who unfortunatley has had a very tuff life. I can not believe his mother would be so insensitive with him. Please Please keep me updated. Especially if the mother does relinquish her rights. April

billssweetie
08/17/2006, 12:21 PM
April -
I'll keep you posted. There isn't any news yet. For now, I'm just trying to figure out what processes one would have to go through to even try to take custody of him. I have a "gut" feeling that if it came down to his mom actually signing away her rights, she wouldn't do it. Who knows though. I've contacted someone at our local Children's Advocacy Center, so we'll see what happens. Thanks for even showing interest. You're a sweetheart!

April U
08/17/2006, 08:02 PM
Billsweetie, I hope for the childs sake the mother does give him up to a loving family. It does not sound like she has the meens to take care of him very well. Bless his little heart for having to take on such a difficult role as such a little boy. I will be keeping him in my thoughts everyday and I think it is good that you contacted your advocacy center. I really hope everything works out for this child. Again, keep me posted we may be interested if things would work out. Talk to you soon, April