"-" again!!!!

[dani]

I'm very depressed, it was - again. I'll keep trying.... Am I the only one tha can't have a baby?? everywhere I go I see people with babies...

[DesignerBug]

Welcome aboard Dani, indeed you are far from the only one that has yet to achieve their dreams of having a baby. Indeed the BFN (see abbreviation list at top of page) are really a downer and hard to overcome. But it's all about perspective and really with nearly 3 years of BFN's under my belt perspective is all I've got left.

So chin up, force a smile and know that you're not alone. This trully can suck big time but if you need someone else's hardships to make yours seem a little less daunting let me tell you this.

Since beginning our journey in April 2003, DH and I have heard over 30 times that someone else is adding to their family before ours. I stopped counting last fall, but I think that I'm nearing 40 times that we've heard from close friends, family and coworkers that they're PG. Unfortunately not all those babies went to term, but in the end it seems that we are indeed the last people to have a child, even though we were the first to start trying.

This is my reality and I've accepted it, and really it may take time for you to either accept that you haven't got PG yet, and take time to understand that what ever forces guide our small universe have some wacky plan in store and we'll understand and appreciate the wait eventually.

So good luck and I hope that you're able to embrace your the beginning of your new cycle so that you can turn over a new leaf and start fresh.

D